Remember, he's a pastor, so he can "hold it against me" individually, and as a church leader. Quickly - I didn't validate, I returned fire, identifying that he was doing the same crap to me that he hates me doing. Was aggressive, loud, walked off, came back and fired again. Also tried, in the beginning, to just be 'affectionate' - pursued. And then this morning I tried to "own" my own crap, my own part in it and apologize. That's probably not wrong.
Not ok, but not suicidal. Hoping to just get through today and find some way to call the coaching thing. It's been far too long. Cristy - can you email me??
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
