Reading sandi's posts about WW I have a much better pictur on what I need to do. One large misstep I made tho is I moved to the basement while she stayed in our room. I will try and remedy this. I agree if she is walking away then why should I be the one that gives up the bed? The more I read on here the better I feel anout what I have to do for myself and children. That is what's important now. I am in the process of getting the books suggested by everyone ASAP. And look forward to using the knowledge they have. Thank you everyone for your help so far. I will definitely stay active here


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.