Been Thinking about issue of sexless marriage. I agree. Sex is a physical need, and if you entered marriage with a decent sex life it's reasonable to expect it because you can't go outside of the marriage.
But consider the roles reversed. What if husband was having problems? Perhaps stress or sleep deprivation or weight gain or depression or marital discord? Then comes the anxiety and stress of performing, often making the problem worse.
If wife voiced unhappiness do you think it would improve situation? But perhaps if wife explored the reason behind it. Help relieve stress, take on part time job so husband does not bear brunt of financial stress, cook healthy meals, show husband he's loved no matter what or perhaps just gave husband space in a respectful way. Basically she would have to take the pressure off right? She would have to Focus on the long term gains by fixing the problem instead of addressing it short term.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
