What is to be expected of the W when I start the detaching process? Also in my situation I am able to spend my free time in the basement reading or working on some projects I have. Is that the right option? I am concerned I will take it too far and alienate her. Last night we had supper with the boys, I tucked the older one in and while he fell asleep she sat in front of the fireplace on her phone. I worked in some school work as I am in a trade and doing schooling now. Then took the dog for a walk. She asked how the walk was. I said it was good. And gave a few details. Then I went downstairs and did some work for an hour or so came up for a drink of water and a smoke and she came over and engaged me. I listened and said little. While I was working she texted me a few times and I have short responses if it was a question. None of it was a statement. After the drink I went back down and read the forums a bit on my phone and slept. She didn't text me anything and this morning I woke her up as she slept through her alarm. I said good morning and other than that there has been nothing. I just have been talking with my 3 yr old. Do I seem like I on the right path? Or too far. Too little?
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
