Why isn't there some sort of sunshine spray that would quickly dissipate the affair fog? Does anyone else (or does everyone else) have fantasies of all sorts of mayhem coming upon the OP? Over on my Rollercoaster thread tonight I wrote about screaming every vile word I could think of to describe the OW. While in my car.Driving. Felt great. Then I thought of how great it would feel to push her into the path of an oncoming train like that scene in House of Cards. Or peel off her face like a cadaver dissection. But before any of you start to worry about me, the only thing I'm actually fantasizing about is that carefully placed oopsie moment when you trip and your arm flings hot coffee in her face. Or pulling her hair. Then my twisted mind went to... wouldn't it be great if there was a website where you could just post pictures of all the homewreckers out there? I'll bet there is. Anyone else have any good revenge fantasies? Will I be censored off this page?
I think we all have those thoughts. In my case I was "lucky". The OM's betrayed wife was awesome! She destroyed her cheating hubby's life and a good bit of my cheating wife's life as well. Case in point, she blanketed the parking lot of my wife's company with fliers about my wife and what she had done. Had my wife's LinkedIn picture on the flier as well as a security camera screenshot of my wife and her hubby in their house in a very compromising position.
My wife's career has never recovered. The OM fled the state and still lives with his elderly mother almost 3 years post-BD.
Although it was the worst period of my life I do take some comfort that karmic justice fell on their heads like a ton of bricks. There were serious repercussions for their disgusting behavior. Did that happen by accident? No. A person who was betrayed made sure it happen. I hope that explains why I lean the other way on exposure. I'm for it. I've seen it crush two people behaving badly and make them both really do some soul searching.
