That is a great plan, Is! Is your W a bit dramatic? I remember after her b-day, and that fight, she put the photos facedown to make her point. I suspect she's making it even more loudly this time. I did the same thing. H fired me as his wife, and I took our wedding pictures down and put them in his office, on the floor. I didn't want to have to look at them!

In my case, though, looking at them hurt. I was just reminded of all his lies every time I saw them. I figured he could look at them. He put them in a closet. LOL

You've got a good plan for now...just get through the funeral, and then see where you are. I don't know, Is...when I read your thread, I see cake-eating on her part a lot. She's really happy to take from you, while giving little in return. Something to think about later...


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti