Parents: help me parenting while separated (2)

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I have been skyping with STBXW about the divorce agreements.
It's hard to do this over the net.
Her distrust in me is so obvious I pointed it out to her.
She replied that she could not trust me since my spying on her with the key-logger program.
I think this is to be expected and I deserve it. However, I would expect her to know that I did that during a very specific period and for very specific reasons.
I replied I also had motives for not trusting her. She wanted to know what were they and I told her she had broken the marriage vows. Should not have done that, of course.
Anyway, it is sad and uncomfortable to be negotiating with a distrust approach.
STBXW considers that I am dragging the procedure because I want to keep the marriage. That is not the case.
It might come to that, though, since the amount of alimony she requests is bigger that what I am spending with the kids right now.