Maybe you need a new IC for yourself. And I would guess the vets would be asking you why you are making appointments for him.
OMG! I honestly never even thought twice about it! That's just what I do. I see a problem, or someone that's hurting or needs help and I try to fix the problem. I KNOW that he's going through his MLC and that he is having panic attacks. I don't want him to hurt and I KNOW that antidepressants and antianxiety meds will help him and possibly allow him to be with me. So, for that reason, and because I don't like to see him in pain, I just wanted to help him. It never occurred to me that I shouldn't, but you are absolutely right. I should have just butted out. The doctor that they tried to set him up with is someone he wouldn't have gone to see because he hates her. The only way for him to get in to see the other Doctor is if I pull strings to make it happen. So, this isn't really something he could have even made happen on his own. And, although that is a true statement, it just sounds like I'm trying to justify and perhaps I am. Apparently when he pulled the rug out from under me again, he shook me up so badly that I can't even think straight yet. UGH! I have got to get a grip! Thanks for pointing my error out to me, I really wouldn't have ever thought of it myself.
And, as for the vets, none of them seem to be commenting on here at all so I'm not thinking they would have said anything at all about it!
I really do hope that I start getting more hours at work. This is ridiculous! I can't survive on no paycheck.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it