Welcome Wrigley. I'm so sorry you're here. Read all of the links above, then read them again. It will all be relevant to you, and luckily you're here sooner rather than later. Do post on other people's threads. You'll get lots of support and it will bring people to your page.
I'm relatively new here, too, so I don't have a lot of advice. The vets will help you. Sometimes it seems the advice is the exact opposite of what you're sure is the right path. The important thing is to remember to check what works and keep doing it, and if it doesn't work after some time, then do something else. Sometimes improvements are so small we miss them, so keep looking.
Fingers crossed that the A fizzles soon.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
