Accept that they are not into flowers but appreciate that they give you plants instead. If you really want flowers buy them yourself. Or else positive reinforcement. Be patient and make no demands and inthink the person will eventually want to naturally make the other person happy when they are not pressured to do so.
When it comes to sex I think it's a different and more complicated issue. and a lot of things to consider. Sex is a physical need. But there has to be a drive or desire right? So why no desire? This has to be figured out first right? 1. Was there medical issues? Nursing and sleep deprivation plays a role physically. 2. Did she feel desirable? I think women get turned on by their own desirability. It's an ego thing. Different then simply meeting a mans basic need but feeling beautiful and sexy. 3. is spouse attracted to spouse? Most likely was at some point or wouldn't be married, so what changed this? my guess is resentment over their needs not being met whether it's fair or not.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
