I suppose, "Are you f'ing kidding me?" isn't a good validating response?

I understand, you felt you were doing what was in the best interests of us both?

I understand you feeling hurt by my opion?

I wish my thoughts didn't cause you to feel hurt?

I'm not sure, Zeus. I haven't got this validating in the bag yet. I still tend towards sarcasm, or straight-up truth. I'm in your camp...huh? How can she reach any other conclusion?

It is tough to validate when you're just stunned. Wow!


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti