What's the best response to 'it hurt that you think this was my choice'?

Just from a validating practice I'm curious if there was something better. It's tough to validate when you are so incredulous about what they're saying. I thought I did ok but am curious. Thanks!


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15