I wonder what it means when they say it's them and not us. And when they say they hate themselves for doing this. And when they say if only I had never let the OP in. Or if only I could get the OP out of my life. I never knew what to say when W would say those things to me. You can only say "I understand" so many times and that's about the only statement I remember to pull out!
There are so many parallels between our different situations. We humans are so complicated and so predictable. It's like someone created the script and it's implanted in our brains and we can't help but spew the same old tired lines over and over. Like ILYBNIL or "it's not you, it's me" or "it's not me, it's you." Have we all heard these lines or what?
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
