Originally Posted By: Mowgli


If OM is really a freeloader with multiple As, she'll figure that out quickly. The school of hard knocks is a tough one to attend, but it teaches the lessons very well. When this R with OM burns out... and it will 100%...will you be ready to take her back?


After how vicious her attacks have been on me the last two days, I now doubt that I can. I thought that I was always ready to take her back, but considering how bad her behaviour has gotten, and what was said, I just don't know now.

I know it was WW spew, but it cut deep.

In the last 3 days, I'm now happy she's not here, and get a knot in my stomach when she is here - I just don't want to be around her. I've never felt like that in 15 years of marriage. I don't want her interacting with the kids - the oldest sees a very angry person.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)