Take your time to read through a lot of the threads in this section. What you see in crazy will make you wonder if we are sane for standing. What you will see is that it is a long road we are on and its not easy nor is there a quick fix. Remember only you can decide how long you can and will deal with this. No one here will judge you in any way. We use 2x4s and even 2x6s sometimes when it is needed. Remember we all are here for each other.
Stop beating yourself up. Figure out strategies to not get drawn into his games. He will believe he is doing all the right things yet to everyone else it will just be crazy. One day he may even wake up and ask you what happened. I had this happen recently just 4 months after she pushed through the divorce. She had no idea what had happened nor was she happy. So keep in mind you cant put your self in his place and try and figure out what is going on. When its over he probably wont be able to either.
Do your GAL activities. Keep moving forward and dont stop. Make him catch up to you if he can and wants too. Show you son who the rock is in the family and who he can count on. Right now live your life for you and your son.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
