Ancaire. Thank you everything you said is so spot on. It is very hard for me to not respond to his texts. He is so selfish. I have never bad mouthed him to the kids. They have been the ones saying negative things about him, and for over a year I was defending him. Until " the big reveal" at that point I stopped defending him. The text S22 sent him last night was so clearly full of pain and hurt but all H could see was how it affected him. He texted me agin at 5 am asking if this is the R I want him to have with the kids because that is what I am fostering
