V, wow just wow. u are unbelievable and ya wonderful. I will read this while thinking, more than a few times as there is alot to take in.
I will bring up any questions that i have for you and continue any discussion as they come up.
One instant comment on the hand hokding thing, many times when the kids try, she will pull her hand away, sometimes with hugs too where you can see a wince when the kids are trying to get close with thier mom.
Wow, i am almost exhasuted from reading all of this and the questions that cause so much thought. Thanks again!
