He mentioned how his paycheck will be half of the usual amount for two weeks as he has had several days off work due to the weather.
So, in the last two weeks there were 4 days plus both weekends. 8 flipping days! He could have seen the kids. And since I told him after BD he needn't only visit them at our house but could pick them up this seems like he just isnt really interested in being a father.
Not surprising I guess. But hurtful nonetheless. It seems he doesn't want me or our children.
Today he wanted to see them then cancelled last minute. I guess he has better things to do.
Who the f@ck is he now?!
Okay. Going to fix a snack. Haven't eaten yet today.
Oh Rain75, I am so sorry your H is doing that. I know exactly how you feel, my H keeps doing it too. He works a lot of weekends due to his shifts and since he left in November there have only been 3 weekends where he has been off. Every single one of them he has not been to see his kids or take them out anywhere during the day. Sometimes he's turned up half an hour before their bedtime. As you say, it hurts so much that they appear to want nothing to do with their children. My sympathetic side tells me that they are doing it because it hurts so much to not see their kids every day but my other side tells me it's because they're only thinking about me, me, ME at the moment.
