otw,
Sandi has told me over and over again......"you have to let her put on her big girl panties and take care of herself." Everything you did take care of for her she'll need to take care of for herself. This is part of the process of realizing what it will be like without you. She had to feel the loss of you in every aspect of life.

I struggle daily to not help my WXW. even though we are officially D'd she is still living in the house

Last edited by gs9; 01/04/16 11:26 PM.
Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place