Time to make changes

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Joss

Sorry for all you are going through

Im sorry you H could not be there for all the kids

I would comfort and want to make sure I am there for the kids and let them know it is no way their fault..their dad is in a crises I just would not want your autistic child to feel he did something wrong..he is going through enough..

,,I would protect the kids first

.H is grown and he will have to face the consequences and chances are this is just the beginning of them--

as for your H, remember this is a business deal,,
My XH also had sudden High blood pressure during our D and separation and yes it was scary

You have children to raise and you really don't know what H would spend money on if you gave it
I wouldn't offer..instead I would make sure you will be taken care of
seek legal advice just to get the facts. You don't have to do anything
but knowledge is power
hang in there..and please take care of yourself
you are doing a great job holding it all together-