Azzork, I appreciate the comments but I disagree on this point.
I somehow missed this.
I just want to point out that on 12/8, you said this: Anyhow my focus is on me and my daughter right now.
Then on 12/9, you did this: So today my daughter went to the city she is moving to after graduation. She is signing her lease for her 1st apt.. I had gone with her to locate the place for her 2 months ago. Today my WW drove up separately from D to see place. I decided not to go along. My D was ok with my decision not to go. My WW expected me to be there but I am doing a NC with her so I really did not want to be with her and pretend to be a family at this time.
So which is it? If the focus is on you and your D, I cant see any reason that you wouldnt want to be there.