Hey Dday,

I do not speak to my mom, dad, or several brothers and sisters. Same as you, a long abusive, manipulative guilt ridden story.

But I never put the other part that you said about detaching from them then I could detach from W, together.

This insight has given me a lift today, that I will be ok, that I can do this, and you can too.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016