Yeah I think after we all get over that initial shock from the BD, we focus on DBing our tails off.... In my case I started seeing the results of the changes I made, hit a point where I was really good with where I was and accepted W was in her own path and in a way relieved it no longer included me because it was just hell... One does tire of limbo and the uncertainty and it's easy to cast the blame the MLCrs direction but it's actually us who holds the key to all this... In my case I didn't see anything changing for me divorced or not ... I accepted it and figured when I was ready to move on with my life with someone else I would file when and if that happened.... Was a very liberating feeling when I just accepted I was the captain of my ship, not W nor her fog-crazed crisis
As far as my hood... Lol I was almost raped by those lorikeets ... Careful there. But yeah Balboa is always cool, they have several exhibits and if you do go there take your S to the Air and Space museum, boys dig that stuff. Another thing S and I do once a year is kayaking in LaJolla ... You can get a tour deal and it's a blast for a couple hours. If you do hit the Wild Animal park... That's an entire day and depending on the time of year you can actually camp in the park over in the safari area ... I'm an annual member for the Wild animal park and the zoo.... And there is always SeaWorld. Often times I'll just grab the baseballs and mitts and S and I will hit the beach and play catch , I'll have him build sand castles while I ponder my life and relax.... So yeah TONS to do here
