Rain75: New post re: OW

[Rain75]

Thanks MB. I will absolutely think of you and your H in his truck. And you mentally telling yourself to STFU and ignoring yourself Lol.

And as his phone is my major trigger I have decided that if he is texting and it really gets to me I will simply cut the visit short.

No arguing or pointing out why. Or blaming him. Just a simple we're going to get going. STFU. And leave with a "thanks see ya" and a smile.

If it were a visit here or a park I would set my boundary. Please leave your Cell phone in the car while we are together. Not controlling as that would be....if you want to spend time with us you HAVE to take the code off of your phone.

Boundaries are to protect our selves and say....you may do as you wish however this is something I will not accept.

Still nervous. Everything Im saying now sounds so grounded and simple. But like MWD says in DR. Yes it's simple. Implementing it is the hard part.

Yikes