MB, I'm so hopeful for you. You have a chance to make this work! There are a lot of success stories, and I hope you can read many of them to get pointers on how to respond to your H and this new situation you are in.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat