Originally Posted By: Rain75

I think that if you told him you actually hadnt moved on or GAL that you need, when your ready, to really do it this time.


Nope, I didn't tell him. And, actually, I did start to GAL. I went to several arts/crafts shows, out to eat, visited with friends, etc. I had even gone to a club with my friends the night before I went to see him when he decided he wanted to get back together. I stayed out late and had a great time. Of course, they were all there with their H, and I was alone. It was a bit depressing, but still a new experience for me. I didn't think my H was driving by to check on me. In fact, I would have sworn that he WASN'T. I was wrong. He, apparently, checked up on me a lot and I just never saw him drive by. I was gone a lot and even if I was home, I would let my kids drive my car so it wouldn't be here. I would never tell him that! LOL.


M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it