I'm not completely caught up with your stories, but I spent some time reading posts by RealityTrip. She successfully navigated reconciliation and the way she did it was quite admirable. She showed a lot of restraint and strength. You can see a summary of her journey here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2422735&page=1 and click on the previous threads to read about how she got there. Good luck.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
