She started to want to try to piece things back together. I got huge fistfulls of hope, and shared my hurt.
Last week my H went to ONE MC session with me. I'm thinking that was a mistake because he did an about face the next time he saw me. . Anyway, I was truly shocked that he admitted to the MC that he didn't see that the affair was wrong when he started it, but that he finally came to realize that it was wrong and he had made some very poor choices and decisions. I thought he had had a breakthrough...guess not.
I also got so completely hopefull and excited that he wanted to fix our marriage. He wanted us to move back in together and live happily ever after. I did share how hurt I had been, guess he thought I deserved to go through it again. Ugh!
I am really sorry that your wife is continuing with D papers, I hope she has another change of heart and that it works out better the second time.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
. Anyway, I was truly shocked that he admitted to the MC that he didn't see that the affair was wrong when he started it, but that he finally came to realize that it was wrong and he had made some very poor choices and decisions. I thought he had had a breakthrough...guess not. 