Your H is pretty unbelievable...some of the things he does literally make my jaw hit the floor. Sending a bill collector after you for one of his bills? Does he have no pride at all? WTF!
He attempted to financially cripple you when you were bringing him food!?!? Holy cow...I don't even know what to say.
On the other hand - how I envy you your group of friends! It sounds like you are having a fabulous time working through all this. You are so blessed to have found a large group to hang out with. Maybe one day, I'll find the same.
You asked a couple of questions on my thread I'll just answer here. You asked if I could get my car out of the shop by myself - the answer to that is no. I need $2000. H will barely give me what I needs for meds and doctor visits. I need to find a job asap, and I went to school for phlebotomy, but then his friend had me thrown in jail, on a felony charge no less!, and that is killing my job chances. I found out I did get the other job. But when it went to human resources and they pulled up my arrest, I was automatically disqualified. I go to court next on January 20th...but I need to be working now. Their little divorce game has really crippled me on this one.
I'm still looking for something in the meantime, but it has to be part-time, and it has to not require any lifting, etc. It's so freaking hard to do. I've been filling out surveys for the few pennies I can get from those.
The lack of funds is the only thing keeping me here. I'd be out this door tomorrow if I could only fix that. So, I'm attempting to come up with something. I could use a miracle right now, that is for sure!
