I know that feeling lol. And you're right. If all was fair in the world the one that walks away should get the "privilege" of feeling as we do.

But since that wont happen we have to get through.

I think that if you told him you actually hadnt moved on or GAL that you need, when your ready, to really do it this time.

Otherwise he will be over on his end doing whatever he wants and "knowing" MB is at home crying and waiting for him. F@ck that!

We are fabulous. We really are. Even if we forget at times.

And a good friend send me a meme that says.... I'll be okay. Just maybe not today.... But I will be okay.

smile

Also I recall reading about a woman here who was in a more similar sitch to yours. She didn't have kids with her H and they were married for a long time and there was an A he denied at first. If I remember or come across her thread again I will post the link on yours.

Buck up buttercup. smile

Rain


Rain (moi): 40
Ex Fiance: 39
3 kids
On/off again EA & PA
Last BD by ow 12/15
Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15