MB - I had something similar happen to me. H suddenly wanted to R, but then acted like a stranger. I wound up getting too over-eager, too hurt by his inattention, and let myself be in a position I should never, ever have even been near.
Long story short, I hunted him down at a party I wasn't invited to. I was pissed because he wasn't answering my texts. When he came out to see what I wanted, we wound up getting into a huge fight. For some reason I asked him if his last A was the only one. He replied that here had been "1 or 2 others". I lost my everloving mind, and wound up driving smack into a parked car. I said a lot of crazy things to everyone while I was out of my head, including the police.
I gave him exactly the excuse he needed to decide he didn't want to work on it anymore. I spent months blaming myself for it. I could have fixed it, if only...
It's only now I realize his heart was never in it to begin with. He seriously wants to be elsewhere. You were just on my thread so you know I'm not exactly happy about it. But, if their heart is really not in it, it usually will not work out well.
How to get them to the point of being sincere? Yeah. I'm struggling with that one.
