Finally! 2015 is coming to an end. :-)

[Mona52]

(((Judy)))

Sending that will only end in frustration and maybe rage for you. There are no words you can give him to let him know anything. He cant hear you right now. He wont care one fig about anything you say in your letter. It will be like a slap in the face for you when he shows you just how much he does not care.

You can SHOW him you are moving on by moving on. Is there any other way, without him, to get your car? For now, can you bunk with your children? Just until you have money from your own job? You have your to-do list right there in your letter! You clearly stated what you need to move on. Now, can we do this without H at all? Actions will show him, not words.

But, if you can just stop for a second and try and refocus on this. YOU do not have to show HIM you are moving on. You do not have to show him what a jerk he is. You do not need to control his R with his kids. You are moving on because you need to do it for you. Nothing in your life has anything to do with H right now. Read that real slow, and out loud if you can:

Nothing in your life has anything to do with H right now.

It does not matter one bit how he feels about you moving on. Look at what he is doing to you. Pull back, way back and look at what you need to move on and figure out how to do that without H. You can do this!