Finally! 2015 is coming to an end. :-)

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Ancare, I am certainly no expert here, but I totally agree with Painter on this one! It was a bit iffy when you were just talking about what you needed in the first 3 paragraphs as it came across a bit antagonistic. But trom paragraph 4 down it was just rehashing the marital problems, accusing, telling him how crappy and worthless he is, etc. That does not inspire anyone to want to cooperate. Believe me, I understand how you can get all fired up just putting it down in words. Consider that a vent that you posted on this forum, and take a deep breath and then let it go. Don't send the letter! It will not get you what you want and will only reinforce your H decision that he doesn't want to be with you and will push him further away making it more difficult to even work with him on things that involve the kids. Painter had the right idea when he said to let the lawyer or mediator deal with it. That's my opinion anyway.