Originally Posted By: mutatio
Mona, I've got a question for you. You posted on my thread about being angry like my wife. If you were really angry at your husband but you noticed him trying repair the relationship, how long could you stay mad? At this point I'm hoping you say a long time. I know your not my wife but how long until you thought about lowering your shield just a bit. Do you think if you were no longer in love with him and he really was really trying, would you throw him away?

I want the truth please, what ever you feel,thanks


Mut, As soon as I FELT he understood the total and exact reasons why I am angry and I see actions proving change, not words, and I hear heartfelt apologies, I would stay mad. I dont believe anyone expects any kind of perfect world. Just knowing someone is trying is enough for me.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!