My goal is to just drop the problem of fixing the marriage. I understand that means to live my life well with kindness and love for my wife and children. I think I will be able to drop the subject, my problem is I cause myself stress when I am around her.
My personality in regards to her at this time is one of no confidence, weakness and subservience. I feel the sword of Damocles hanging over my head. She is cool and removed emotional to me, this could be a defensive measure. I think this is hard on her and that's part of the reason she stays in her room. Through our limited interactions she must pick up on my vibe. My question is how do I manage my emotions so that I give off a positive feeling. I prefer to radiate sunshine instead of being a dark gloomy day.
How do you effect this change under these circumstances?
