Yes. Great post and helpful to read another's thoughts while processing. I am sending you all the best for 2016. Sounds like you have a lot to look forward to.

M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou