In the short term I need her to feel safe and secure in the house. To be able to relax and reduce/eliminate the paranoia .

She feels I will journal every conversation, and she can't talk to me - there is no trust.
I said I would throw away the journal.

I have stopped snooping/spying and will keep a low profile by GALing (I said to her I would keep out of her way - and she replied she doesn't want that!)

I'm not sure how to proceed - stay out of the house or not.

Last edited by isittoolate; 01/04/16 06:52 AM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16