Zues - thanks for sharing this (sorry to jump in Julie). Can I ask for clarification on one sentance: "It was obvious that she was letting me take the lead in the sexual arena, and I never felt more loved or connected." What do you mean here, by "letting you take the lead"... do you mean just not rejecting/saying no, or something else?
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?