I'm scratching my head a bit at some of this too Kyrie. I just posted a bit on Julie's thread, please read that, there is some overlap. I'll keep reading your sitch and comment when I feel I can help.

Julies thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2638040#Post2638040

Please do start a new thread though. (Isn't newcomers great, you can fill a thread in no time!)

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