FWIW, I've never been cold like that. I may not initiate the way he might want, but have almost never said no. Even while DBing during the summer, even while I knew he was carrying on long distance, even after figuring out the porn. I never knew that there was some other need...he never said it like that.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
