Sorry dday. When I first read your post I thought it was the final draft and not the legal final. Take some time to just enjoy your kids and the life you have. Emotions are likely going to creep up and hit you hard, theres nothing wrong with that. It will take time to fully grieve and move on. Maybe years, but you will be ok.

Originally Posted By: dday
The hardest thing for me now is that I honestly think we'll end up together again. I need to let that go. May be a pipe dream. But throughout this whole thing, since bd, I have thought we would work it out as soon as she us ready.

How do I get rid of that line of thought? Please share ideas, because that is the rope anchoring me to her.


That could just be a normal thought we all share. I know I feel the same. The answer might be just time. Enjoy your life and be happy for what you do have. GAL, take your mind off of it, find things to really live for.

Sorry, wish I had something better but I'm not past that point either.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be