Fo, hijack away. Many of our situations are very similar so conversation is helpful to us all. I was actually going to ask Zues the same question.
Was there anything your wife could have done or said to you that would have helped. Was it her leaving that made you examine your role and perhaps desire to fix things in a new way?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015