That is W bag sweetheart. Her lies, just sniff and deal with those that arise now.
I know, I know.... I'm going to use it to emphasize patience. The rest is... just what it is. Nothing more, nothing less.
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Predicting a confrontation? Not so useful really, can you reframe this?
The potential confrontation is simply to ask to see her phone when/if I think there is something to see. I'm not totally sure when this will happen, but I'm fairly certain she's already back to texting him - I walked in and she closed her phone really quick with tears in her eyes. Then she started talking about something random as fast as she could. She was hiding something, but I let it slide.
I'm honestly not sure if it's a good idea to call her on her transparency plan or not. On the one hand, I think it's critical to keep her accountable. On the other hand, I don't want to drive any contact further underground or add to the excitement of getting caught... ANy thoughts?
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
