Should I be concerned that I found an email from over 2 years ago where my wife called the OM sweetie ? That was before he filed for divorce, before they set up their chat app, before they sent each other naked pictures, and WAY before I had a clue...

My take on my "find" is that yes, this is going to take a HELL of a lot longer than I thought and I'm trying not to think about how my wife lied to my face when I first asked if I needed to be worried about the OM.

As far as I know there has been zero contact in the last week. We'll see what happens now that my in-laws are gone. I'm sensing another confrontation on the horizon

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou