Rain75: New post re: OW

[Rouky]

That is just a great news that you had a good morning. Always look for the positives even if they are very small :-). Once you start small it'll grow and grow and you'll see life from a different side :-)

[Rain75]

Thanks Rouky. Much appreciated

[Rouky]

Are you French?

[Rain75]

No. Latina actually....Why?

[Rouky]

The fact you use moi and fiancé as it's French. :-)

[Rain75]

Oh. No. Just my eclectic family's influence I suppose. That gave me a laugh though.

[Rouky]

See one positive thing so far: you had a laugh. :-)

[Rain75]

I find myself laughing more the past few days. May be because I stopped feeding into and arguing with XF. It's not even a month in. But I do feel slightly less " my life is over without his love" and a little more "so this is where I'm at". Baby steps

[Rain75]

Hard to stay dim when there are health issues. He told me his mother has taken ill and asked me to call him. The doctors are not hopeful. I am praying for her.

[Rain75]

I want to text him but we've already said goodnight after he inquired about the kids. So, I won't.