Sounds like her right to be happy trumps your marriage, and you as well.
Just what I pulled from what you typed.
Also, nice job with validating. Keep your feelings to a minimum - she won't understand your hurt for a while, right? No need to tell her.
What do you think, Nate?
No problem with the load of laundry - it's a nice friendly gesture. I wouldn't be hanging around listening to her and the sloshing of the water, though. Find something to do.
I'm at work, so won't be there.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15