Sounds like her right to be happy trumps your marriage, and you as well.

Just what I pulled from what you typed.

Also, nice job with validating. Keep your feelings to a minimum - she won't understand your hurt for a while, right? No need to tell her.

What do you think, Nate?

No problem with the load of laundry - it's a nice friendly gesture. I wouldn't be hanging around listening to her and the sloshing of the water, though. Find something to do.

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)