I It's important to understand their inability or unwillingness to provide that intimacy to us had nothing to do with is. I know I took it extremely personally before and it caused me all kinds of issue
Is this true Fogg? " has nothing to do with is (us)".
After a lot of reading and talking with my therapist about intimacy. Be it physical or emotional. It would appear that we tend to choose partners who match our own abilities. Our partners are mere reflections of us most of the time. My therapist asked me "how do you avoid intimacy in relationships?" This is a big question. Still one I am figuring out. Intimacy is a challenge it requires us to be completely vulnerable and exposed - it is our partners seeing the good, the bad, the great and the ugly in us, and loving and accepting us and staying anyway.
Are you sure Fogg that you want to be truly seen? Is it wife's inability and unwillingness, or yours?
