Julie, if my H's affair had been physical I would have left him the day I found out. I know that is not something I could ever get past. The EA was enough to really rock me, but I can understand from a "human" perspective how a friendship can evolve and the line is not clear. I also am tempted by other men now and can see how easy it would be.
Hang in there, you are doing the right thing! I really like your posts because of your honesty and direct way of communication. How are your children?
