Stfu is a huge one for me. I would deserve the oscars of Stfu-ness if i can pull this off! And I'd have a great speech too
Make every interaction a good one- leave them with a good feeling. Sooooo, cursing and crying and shaming are off the table...geez what WILL we talk about
Be mysterious...must admit I am not to sure about how to do this one but I want to learn.
Detach....ahhhh the golden goose. This is what I want more than anything.
LOL...this post made me laugh. Thank you!
As for the stfu....I can hear myself yelling it so loudly in my head that it has to be all caps. STFU!!! Over and over and over.... If only I could listen to myself!!!
Every interaction a good one? Cursing, crying and shaming...seemed to be my hot topics for this evening while I had him trapped in his truck after he paid $120 for a new battery for my car and fixed my car. Seemed like a logical interaction after his kindness....right? I could soooo hear that STFU voice yelling at me, but I just kept on going like a moron! I didn't stop until I had him telling me that he doesn't want to be married to me. I wasn't really fishing for THAT reaction and I so regret that I got it.
I do think that I pulled off the mysterious thing (before we started talking again). He honestly thought I had GAL and was very curious about it. I haven't been able to accomplish the detaching thing though. I wish I could, but haven't been able to manage it just yet. Looks now like I will have plenty of time to practice.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
